How to tell if he's faking it?

How to tell if he's faking interest, affection, or orgasm depends on context, but general signs of faking in relationships involve inconsistency between words and actions. Emotionally, if he says he cares but rarely initiates contact, does not remember important details, avoids future plans, or is affectionate only when he wants something, he may be faking interest. Inconsistent effort, hot and cold behavior, and avoiding deep conversations suggest lack of genuine investment. Physically, if you are asking about faking orgasm, signs can include lack of typical physiological responses, quick recovery with no refractory period, overly performative reactions that seem acted, or avoiding intimacy afterwards, but it is important not to make accusations based solely on physical signs as bodies vary. The best way to tell is communication and observing patterns over time rather than single moments. Genuine partners show consistent care, respect, listen, follow through on promises, and make you feel safe. If you suspect faking, have an open honest conversation about needs and feelings rather than trying to detective physical clues, and consider whether relationship meets your emotional needs overall.